With Elle Russ - #1 Bestselling Author and Master Coach

Are you tired of feeling held back in your personal and professional life? Do you feel like you're not living up to your full potential due to lack of confidence or self-esteem? If so, then you're not alone. 80+% of the world struggles with low self-esteem and confidence.

Confidence is the key to unlocking success in all areas of life. Whether you're looking to find your perfect partner or climb a career ladder, be a great parent, or become a successful coach — confidence is the foundation upon which you build any success.

Without true confidence, we hold ourselves back from achieving our dreams and goals. We miss out on opportunities, settle for less than we deserve, and struggle to make our voices heard.

But it doesn't have to be this way. With The Ultimate Confidence Course, you'll learn how to build unshakable confidence. You'll learn how to overcome self-doubt and take bold, decisive action and communications towards your dreams. You will gain the tools and strategies to embody confidence, connect with others, and make lasting impressions.

Time is of the essence. The longer you wait to build your confidence, the longer you will continue to struggle with self-doubt and missed opportunities. 

The Ultimate Confidence Course is a course for everyone. You might be a high-achieving entrepreneur, a stay-at-home parent, a corporate badass, a life coach, or someone simply wanting to significantly level up their self-esteem and confidence in order to materialize goals and dreams and live a happier, more relaxed life.

You need high self-esteem and confidence in every area of your life - from the bedroom to the boardroom. Believing in yourself on the deepest level is an all-encompassing practice in embodying high self-esteem and self-confidence.

I "walk-the-talk" when it comes to confidence and I provide very specific examples in the course. Anyone can rattle off ethereal, elusive confidence tips, but the real power and skill lies in being able to coach people based on specific, real-world examples that people can relate to. I LIVE confidence and I am absolutely confident in being able to help you on your journey to self-esteem and a better life.

  • 80+% of people worldwide (adults and adolescents) have low self-esteem.
  • Confident people are the happiest people in the world.
  • Confident people tend to be more emotionally stable, have a more constructive outlook, and feel greater self-acceptance.
  • You generate confidence - it is not given to you. Confidence is a CHOICE.

When you become confident as fu*k it emanates from you naturally, because it is who you are - not a manufactured or false version of you. 


Having confidence provides an ancestral edge. It helps us maneuver mental and physical challenges, tasks, and social situations with courage over fear - thus propelling us in the direction of materializing our goals and dreams. 

After coaching people all over the world for a decade I can tell you that wealth, success, and notoriety doesn’t make people confident. Great parenting doesn’t always do it either. It must be generated from within.

And watch out - don’t let someone’s career title or level of income fool you into believing that is confidence. You can be confident on the outside, and an insecure people-pleaser on the inside. We mistakenly equate extroverted, forceful personalities with true confidence. Sometimes we make poor judgments as a result - like when choosing a mate, business partner, etc.

Everybody has an area of their life that needs more self-esteem and confidence. You can be a badass boss with wealth, but lack self-esteem and confidence in personal and romantic relationships. You could be really confident in some of your skills and abilities, yet walk through life as a people pleaser who can't speak up in personal relationships.

Sometimes the most confident person in the room is the quietest person in the room. You can be quiet and confident. Don’t let reserved personalties or silence fool you into thinking someone lacks confidence.


 After graduating from college, my goal was to make a lot of money so that I could retire young and enjoy life - a very ambitious plan. At the age of 22, I was actually achieving it! I became a top producer at a technology-consulting firm in Silicon Valley, California. I was generating over 2 million dollars of revenue and managing over 100 consultants throughout the state of California. My clients included Charles Schwab, Wells Fargo Bank, Bank of America, AT&T and many more. 

Just as the ink was about to dry on a promotion that would have increased my annual earnings to a quarter of a million dollars…

I got benched by the universe.

A repetitive strain injury with my hands and arms left me rated as 40% disabled by the state of California. 


I was horrified and devastated as you might imagine. I felt "less than" suddenly. I felt ashamed and embarrassed for being disabled and having something "wrong" with me.

My ambitious goals and future career plans came crashing down. So did my income. There are only a handful of professions that do not require the repetitive use of both hands 8+ hours a day, five days a week (on top of the hand use required to feed yourself, shower, dress, and basically just exist as a self-sufficient human being).

As you might imagine, I was frightened about my future. I could barely lift a fork to my mouth at the time. I also had intense shame about my disability and I felt like I had been branded with an embarrassing, super crappy identity THAT NO ONE IN THE WORLD WANTS.

This injury was a massive hit to my confidence and self-esteem on a variety of levels.

I reasoned that in order to survive in a hand-dominated world, I would have to find a way to use my voice to support myself. It seemed like the only chance I had. 

The first couple of years I spent away from constant computer use helped heal my hands and arms enough to live a chronic-pain free existence (with occasional flare-ups). It also gave me the opportunity to think deeply about what I was going to do with my life, considering that I was instantly unhireable from 99.99% of all professions in the world at the age of 23.

The years I spent away from having financial wealth offered me the realization that my success was never defined by my resume or my bank account. My success was and is currently defined by my perspective, my levels of self-esteem and confidence, and my happiness and fulfillment in everyday life. 

My journey had many dark days filled with lots of tears but I dove head-first into uncharted, scary waters with confidence and perseverance. And you know what, I nailed it. I am proud of myself. I want everyone to feel this proud - and I don’t just mean feeling proud of your career or personal accomplishments...I mean feeling proud of who you are on the inside because of the growth you did to love the heck out of yourself and pursue your dreams.

The goals and dreams I have accomplished thus far in life, along with amazing experiences that I have materialized - many people thought were impossible. 

I followed my passions courageously - despite the haters, naysayers, and doubters along the way. And despite a significant physical disability accompanied by debilitating shame. 

If I could do it, so can you!

For the full story about my hand injury journey, read or listen to Part 4 of my book Confident As Fu*k



...Is acheivable through confidence and self-esteem.

 Confidence is not some fixed, anchored quality within you; your levels of confidence are always the sum of the thoughts you think and the actions you take. It is not reflective of your actual capacity to succeed at something, but more reflective of your belief in your ability to prevail at life in general or at a specific endeavor.

Since you can change your thoughts and actions, high levels of confidence and self-esteem are within your power. I look forward to helping you achieve that.


  • Confidence in business
  • Confidence in entrepreneurship
  • Confidence in self promotion
  • Confidence and the power of intention
  • Confidence in dating, family and friendships
  • Confidence with drawing and maintaining boundaries
  • Confidence with public speaking
  • Confidence in speaking up
  • Authenticity & Integrity
  • Self-Love and self-acceptance
  • Moving past disabling shame
  • Fielding and deconstructing parental garbage
  • Dealing with and avoiding downers
  • Avoiding NONversations
  • Jealousy and envy
  • Adult bullying
  • People pleasing
  • Justifying and explaining
  • Difficult conversations
  • Becoming unavailable 


  • They are comfortable with failures and mistakes
  • They are happy
  • They never hesitate to speak up
  • They get what they want out of life and fearlessly pursue their dreams
  • They speak with authority
  • They are dependable, reliable, trustworthy, and on time
  • They encourage, foster, and celebrate the success of others
  • They take initiative
  • They are leaders
  • They are decisive
  • They are goal-oriented
  • They don’t avoid conflict
  • They maintain eye contact
  • They move through the world with ease
  • They draw and maintain healthy boundaries in all relationships
  • They go after their dreams and goals with faith and confidence
  • They are not jealous or envious of others
  • They don’t compete with or against others
  • They have an abundance mindset 
  • They focus on their strengths, not weaknesses
  • They have healthy relationships
  • They have self-compassion
  • They are not easily offended

Do you embody all of the qualities and characteristics listed above? If not (but desire to), then The Ultimate Confidence Course is for you.


Testimonial - Lauren Grace Martinson 

Lauren is a clinical hypnotherapist and coach. Aside from this testimonial, Lauren is featured in The Ultimate Confidence Course discussing resolving trauma  through hypnotherapy in order to clear stumbling blocks to happiness, confidence, and self-esteem.

Lauren Grace Martinson

Testimonial - Barbara Diaz De Leon RN, PHC, CTNC 

Barbara is a health and wellness coach and the founder of Daily Wellness for You. She had her own remarkable body and mind transformation, and she is passionate to help other women lose weight, gain energy, and live the life they deserve.

Barbara Diaz De Leon

Testimonial - April Dawn King 

April Dawn King is a holistic nutritionist and the founder of Better Than Provisions - a food company committed to providing convenient, nutrient-packed, guilt-free foods that taste indulgent and suit a variety of dietary styles.

April Dawn King


My personality type is ENTJ. We are the rarest personality type - only 3% percent of the population. ENTJ’s are referred to as the Commander personality - natural-born leaders who possess the innate drive to lead others. The ENTJ personality type is a highly motivated and focused person who sees just about everything by focusing on the bigger picture. 


The Ultimate Confidence Course is right for you if...

  • You want to excel in profound ways in all areas of life
  • You want to be admired and respected
  • You want to be a leader
  • You want to feel inspired and motivated 
  • You want to fearlessly manifest your goals and dreams
  • You want better relationships of all kinds
  • You want to speak up more in life 
  • You want to create and honor more boundaries with others and with yourself
  • You want to be free from codependency
  • You want to be happy and feel immensely grateful
  • You want to succeed 
  • You want to finally pursue that dream you have been hiding from.
  • You want to do your life, your way
  • You just want to be happy

How is The Ultimate Confidence Course different from the book? 

While I shared as much as I could in my book, it was limited to a few hundred pages and this course gave me unlimited room to deep-dive and share decades of experience.


What You Get In The Ultimate Confidence Course...

16 modules and over 14 hours of content!

  • A digital copy of my book Confident As Fu*k
  •  10+ hours of audio tutorials with Elle
  •  Confidence and Self-Esteem Workbook
  •  Confidence Affirmations Mp3
  •  2-hour conversation on confidence with master coach and marriage/relationship consultant Tanya Stewart Dyer, Esq.
  •  1.5 hour conversation on confidence with Cindy Lu - master coach and author of the bestselling book The Four Man Plan.
  •  1-hour conversation Lauren Grace Martinson, founder of LGM Hypnosis and LGM Coaching. She is a certified clinical hypnotherapist specializing in mindset coaching. Lauren will address PTSD and Trauma (stumbling blocks to happiness, confidence, and self-esteem). Lauren is also a former confidence course participant.
  •  You will have guaranteed access to The Ultimate Confidence Course for one year after you enroll. 
  •  Must be 18 years of age or older to purchase 

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